Wednesday, December 17, 2014

Remembering The Past

This week I was reminded how quickly we can begin to forget things that happen in our past. There were a couple of instances when Tami and I had discussions and even serious debate over our conflicting memories.

Last Sunday, I shared a story from my childhood that I hadn’t thought about in years. It involved my older brother Steve and myself, and I don’t even know if he’d remember it because it wasn’t some life-changing event, but out of it came a memory that tied in perfectly with my message. On the way home that day Tami asked me why she had never heard that story before even though we’ve been together for over 35 years. I explained that the story had never crossed my mind until writing that sermon and being reminded, I believe by the Holy Spirit, of an event that could minister to somebody Sunday morning. If you want to know the story you’ll have to go to our church website and listen to the podcast.
Then, on Sunday evening, we were sitting in our home having a discussion about our dating years when another story came up. We had totally different stories about the same event and even called Tami’s mom to verify who was correct. Well, sorry to say, but my wonderful mother-in-law has a memory as good as her daughters: not good at all. I was telling them the story with specific facts and descriptions of the event and they still refused to believe me. We even asked some of our friends and I explained the whole event to them, and they assumed I was telling the truth because my story was so detailed. So, babe, I was right!

All of that to say this: our minds are amazing things. While we are going through events in life we can experience complete joy or peace, sorrow, pain, or whatever other feeling you can imagine, but as time goes on that event will begin to fade from memory. That is why we need to face each day as a new day and know that God has a plan for us each day we are here. Whatever you are going through today will change and even fade away at some point, but your faith in God should be that one constant that never changes. God will always love you, be there for you, and guide you through your life. As the years go by there will probably be more things that you forget about God’s faithfulness, but that doesn’t matter. What matters is you never forget that He is there for you!

Wednesday, December 10, 2014

No Short Cuts To Spiritual Growth

Today I was reminded how important the past is to each of us. We live in a day and time when everything is done in a new and better way, and I won’t lie—I like it that way. To be able to heat up food in a matter of moments compared to several minutes, to be able to set up a Christmas tree in four sections with lights and decorations already attached compared to the old-fashioned way of picking out a tree, cutting it to fit a stand, and then decorating it. Or even making biscuits…dinner tonight reminded me that the old-fashioned way took several minutes, but tonight I just have to pop open a container and eight biscuits are ready to go into the oven.

As much as I enjoy the easy, convenient way of life that I have today, I have to remind myself that today’s method of making life easier can never apply to my spiritual life. Even though salvation is instantaneous, my spiritual development can only happen with a slow, steady understanding of what I must do to create the optimal situation for growth. What things do you need to integrate into your life to create the perfect scenario to grow spiritually? Don’t let yourself be deceived into thinking that you can’t grow because every one of us can!

Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Comfort Food

The last few days have brought cold weather to Texas, and those who know me know that I don’t mix well with the cold. This evening, when driving home from the office, I was talking with Tami and we decided that we needed comfort food. She has been sick at home for a few days and we just wanted something warm and good.

We all have those foods that we turn to when we need comfort. That food may change based on the event that is leading to the desire. Like today—because I was cold I wanted something warm that would make me feel warm and comfy while I relaxed. When I am under a lot of stress, my comfort food is chocolate. It doesn’t matter the form; I just want that chocolate flavor. I have several comfort foods based on what is happening around me.

Just as I have comfort food to lift my spirits and help me relax, I have scriptures that are my comfort scriptures. These are the scriptures that I turn to when I find myself facing various aspects of life: scriptures promising that God will turn my mourning into gladness, that God will heal my heart when it’s broken, that God will comfort me just as a mom knows how to comfort her child. Other verses promise that God will take care of me, be a stronghold when I’m facing tough times, and guide me when I don’t know which way to go. Your Bible is full of scriptures that can be used on those days when you just need a special word of encouragement, support, and love.By the way, our comfort dinner was chicken and dumplings. This has become a favorite here in our house and especially when it’s cold outside.